This might sound weird, but where are the normal gay guys at? I made the mistake of asking a subreddit the question in the title of this post. I’m not really a circuit party or gay bar sort of bisexual guy. I’ve been to a gay bar. I’ve worked in gay bars and found community there. But I am approaching my mid-30s, and between the pandemic and a strong desire to make my own drinks, the gay bar/club space just isn’t me anymore. I knew that…
